The following is a guest post from Megan, who agreed to share her “story of recovery” with all of you. Megan is a member of my private Facebook group, where shared comments about her wardrobe and style evolution that I thought would be inspiring for all readers of “Recovering Shopaholic.” I asked her if she’d be willing to expand upon her story so we could all learn from her experience, and this post is the result.
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“I Hate Everything in My Closet!”
This wasn’t what my closet looked like when I started my journey!
My story started with a prolonged mental state of “I hate everything in my closet!” I remember that I was running late all the time because it took me forever to get dressed, and I still felt unhappy when I finally did get out the door. I melted down in the middle of great vacation trips because I was not wearing appropriate clothes. I was constantly in the “shopping cycle” but had no good outfits to show for it.
When I shared my tips for a reader looking to downsize her closet and asked for additional suggestions, I never imagined I would get so many wonderful comments from all of you. I was so impressed with the quality of the recommendations given that I decided to share many of them in this follow up post. I know that many subscribers don’t read the comments on my posts, but they are often equally as helpful as what I write. In this case, I would venture to say that the suggestions in the comments may be more beneficial than the tips I offered.
Do you struggle with deciding what to cull and what to keep?
I didn’t include all of the comments and I edited some of the ones herein for the sake of clarity or brevity. I didn’t want this to be too much of a marathon post. I have given credit to the person who made each comment. I hope that those of you who are looking to downsize your wardrobe will find these additional tips as useful as I did. If you have anything to add, please feel free to do so.
About a month ago, I received an email from a reader who wanted some advice for her struggles in paring down her wardrobe. She told me she hadn’t seen advice anywhere that fit her specific situation. I could have just responded to her questions via email like I usually do, but since I’ve been blogging for a few years now and have read many comments from readers, I knew many of you could likely relate to this reader’s challenges. I also believe that those who have overcome similar struggles in the past could offer her additional advice beyond that which I am able to give. So I decided to answer the questions in a post rather than through email.
Summarizing the Questions
I will do my best to summarize the reader’s questions here, as her email was quite a few paragraphs long and I want to preserve her anonymity. This reader is an aspiring minimalist who wants to own less but finds herself with a closet full of items that she either likes or loves. However, she feels she owns too much overall, especially for someone who really wants to adopt a minimalist lifestyle. She is hesitant to store some of her items in boxes because that doesn’t feel “clean” or minimalist to her, yet she also doesn’t want to get rid of anything that is still in good shape and which may be hard to replace in the future. Compounding the issue is the fact that she plans to get pregnant soon and worries that if she stops working for a while, she won’t be able to afford good quality business clothes if she gives up the ones she has now.
After I bought so many new items in April, my closet started to feel a bit too full. So I elected to do something I didn’t think I would do… I decided to use the “KonMari Method” with my wardrobe. In today’s post, I will share what I did, what I got rid of and why, and how I felt during the process.
If you want to downsize your closet, give the KonMari Method a try!
Most of you are probably aware of the “KonMari Method” by now. Even if you haven’t read my two posts on that topic (see here and here), you’ve probably seen other blog posts or magazine articles on the topic. Marie Kondo’s book, “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up,” has been on the New York Times bestseller list for months and you’d almost have to be living under a rock not to have heard of it by now.